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Friday October 2, 2009

Health and Beauty Tip -- Facial Hair

If you have dark hair on your face, don't shave it! It doesn't grow in thicker, as many think, but it feels like it does as the shaved ends are coarser. In-home waxing can be painful, and salon waxing or hair removal tend to get pricey (especially the latter). Many women are better off simply lightening the hair to make it less visible.

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Solvent linked to birth defect risk

BOSTON (UPI) -- U.S. researchers have linked exposure to tetrachloroethylene to birth defects.

The chemical, used commonly as a solvent, is also known as perchlorethylene or PCE, and is sometimes found as a contaminant in drinking water.

The study, published in Environmental Health, found an increased risk of oral clefts and neural tube defects in children whose mothers -- while pregnant -- lived in eight towns in the Cape Cod area of Massachusetts where water pipes lined with a vinyl coating containing PCE had been used from 1969 to 1983.

There were 61 children with congenital anomalies among the 1,658 children with some prenatal PCE exposure.

"The results suggest that the risk of certain congenital anomalies is increased among the offspring of women who were exposed to PCE-contaminated drinking water around the time of conception," study researcher Ann Aschengrau of Boston University School of Public Health said in a statement.


Copyright 2009 by United Press International
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Annie's Mailbox

Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar

Dear Annie: I am a 52-year-old registered nurse. I have been widowed for seven years and happily live alone. My parents, ages 80 and 71, live in the same city, and I visit them at least once a week to help with chores. Although they could afford to hire outside help, they refuse to do so.

My problem is, Mom and Dad are putting intense pressure on me to move in with them. They have made it clear that they will never go into a nursing home, and since I am a nurse, they think I should be available to them 24/7 for the rest of my life. As it is, the moment I walk in their door, I am told to do this and fix that. I will have no rest whatsoever if I am crazy enough to take them up on their "generous offer."

How can I make them see I don't want to be their indentured servant? -- Thinking of Moving Out of State

Dear Thinking: How sad that your parents have succeeded in making you dread spending time with them. While we each have a moral obligation to see that our aging parents are cared for, that does not mean you have to live with them or be at their beck and call. Put your backbone in a stiff brace, and tell them you love them, but will not be moving in with them, now or ever, and they should stop asking. Do what you can to help them out, but get a handle on how much you are willing to do before you are eaten up with resentment and your relationship becomes bitter. It will be easier if you are not afraid to tell them when you've punched out for the day.

Dear Annie: I recently went to a beauty school to have my hair colored and had a less than "beautifying" experience. I was greeted by so much exposed cleavage and so many facial piercings, tattoos and zebra hair colors that I thought I was at a circus. Everyone was chomping and smacking their gum like cows chewing their cud.

Annie, when I enter such an establishment, I want to be inspired, not repulsed. Is it too much to ask that the student hair designers conduct themselves in a professional way with regard to their personal grooming, as well as their conduct? Should I say something? -- Longing for Customer Service

Dear Longing: Most people who patronize beauty schools do so because they are less expensive. Those who object to the student-in-training vibe tend to go elsewhere. However, students should be learning how to dress and behave in a way that is appropriate for the professional environments where they hope to work, although many salons have a casual attitude about employee attire. If you can phrase it as constructive criticism, speak to whoever runs the place and see if it helps.

Dear Annie: I read the letter from "Dreamer," whose husband is flirting with another woman. My soon-to-be ex had an emotional relationship with a woman he was singing with at our church. My husband insisted they were just friends.

We had counseling and left that church. The counselor stated that even though there was no sex, my husband's lying made it an affair. After a year of expensive sessions, my husband promised he would never stray again. But a year ago, I came home from work early because I was sick and found him having sex in our bed with this same woman. He admitted it had been going on for the past six years.

We were married 20 years. I am entitled to half of his assets, including his pension. My husband did not realize this. I bet if "Dreamer's" husband understood the financial realities, he might be more willing to save his marriage. -- Single and Financially Sound in Michigan.

Dear Single: Divorce laws vary according to state, but you've pointed out something that not all cheating spouses think about at the time. Thanks.

Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, P.O. Box 118190, Chicago, IL 60611. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox, and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.


Copyright 2009 Creators Syndicate Inc.
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Quote of the Day

Marge Piercy

[Long hair] is considered bohemian, which may be why I grew it, but I keep it long because I love the way it feels, part cloak, part fan, part mane, part security blanket.

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