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Wednesday January 27, 2010

Health and Beauty -- Avoid Static Cling

To fight off static cling, keep a dryer sheet in your purse and rub it on the underside of your skirt or pantyhose.

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Lesbian defense feared in criminal case

NEW YORK (UPI) -- Prosecutors in New York said they are preparing to counter a possible lesbian defense in regards to a prostitution case involving two strippers.

Manhattan Assistant District Attorney Daryl Reed said if co-defendants Cassandra Malandri and Falynn Rodriguez attempt to use a lesbian defense to refute prostitution charges, he wants to call Malandri's boyfriend as a witness, the New York Daily News said Thursday.

"One of their defenses may be that they're lesbians," Reed offered in court Wednesday.

"We should be allowed to call her so-called fiance to rebut her."

Attorney Ikiesha al-Shabazz, who is one of the lawyers representing the two women, said it would be faulty logic for someone to argue lesbians would not have sex with a man for money.

"It doesn't even make sense," the defense attorney argued.

The New York Post said Malandri, who is known in the pornographic industry as Alexia Moore, and Rodriguez allegedly offered to have a threesome with a man in exchange for $5,000. The man involved in the alleged 2008 prostitution offer at Big Daddy Lou's Hot Lap Dance Club was an undercover police officer.


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Annie's Mailbox

Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar

Dear Annie: I have four grown children. However, I am not entirely certain that my second daughter is my biological child. Around the time she was conceived, my wife had an affair with my brother-in-law.

Before my wife passed away, she swore that daughter was mine, but I can see no trace of myself in her or in any of her offspring. My other three children bear a strong physical resemblance to me, and so do their children.

I realize it is not her fault if she is not my child, and I would not treat her or her children any differently. But before I die, I would like to know the truth. Is there any way I could secretly obtain a DNA specimen from her to do a test? No matter which way it turns out, I would share the results with no one. -- Tennessee

Dear Tennessee: There are ways to get specimens, but we are asking you not to do this. It will only bring you peace of mind if you discover she is indeed your biological child. Regardless of your promise, if you find out she is not yours, you may not be able to treat her the same. Keeping the secret will create stress and could undermine the relationship you now have. The only valid reason for doing a DNA test is to provide your daughter with an accurate medical history, but if you don�t plan to inform her, this doesn�t apply. We urge you to convince yourself she is yours and believe it with all your heart, because in the most important sense, it is true.

Dear Annie: My cousin likes the same guy I like. She actually liked him first, but I�ve really fallen hard for him. I�ve known �Justin� for two years, and he has told me that he really likes me, too. We enjoy being together, but my cousin insists they�re �meant for each other.�

I�ve tried to tell her that Justin and I are happy with each other, but she always starts crying. Justin said he�s flattered by her attention, but he doesn�t feel the same way about her. He says I'm his �future girlfriend.�

I�m afraid to bring it up with my cousin and tell her about my feelings because she has a bad habit of spreading rumors when she�s upset. I don�t want to go down that road again. Should I just come out and tell her? -- Justin�s Girl

Dear Justin�s Girl: There�s no reason for you to bring it up at all. Your cousin has a crush on Justin. It�s up to him to let her know whether he�s interested or not. If you become overly involved explaining things, your cousin will hold you responsible for whatever happens. It would help if she could focus her romantic interests on someone else, and maybe you could gently push her in another direction.

Dear Annie: I read the letter from �Uncomfortable Stepmom,� whose 40-something stepson has the nervous habit of touching his crotch in public.

When I was in elementary school, I once went to the bathroom and walked back into class with my zipper down. For days, other students made fun of me and ridiculed me.

I am now 44 years old and have a great life, but to this day, I often check repeatedly to make sure my zipper is up -- even in public. My girlfriend mentions it to me when I do it, but the fear of it being unzipped is still there. Perhaps the same thing happened to the stepson and he is just double-checking his zipper. -- Making Sure Zipper Is Up

Dear Making Sure: Your letter is proof that childhood teasing can last a lifetime. But please, try to double (or triple) check your zipper before you leave the men�s room instead of groping yourself in public.

Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, c/o Creators Syndicate, 5777 W. Century Blvd., Ste. 700, Los Angeles, CA 90045. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.


Copyright 2010 Creators Syndicate Inc.
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Quote of the Day

Holly Lisle, Fire In The Mist, 1992

The only place you will be accepted is the place you make for yourself.

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