| WASHINGTON (UPI) -- U.S. Rep. Bart Stupak, D-Mich., says he will do his best to hold up passage of healthcare reform unless his language limiting abortion coverage is included.
Stupak's amendment, included in the House version of the legislation, would prevent women receiving federal insurance subsidies from buying abortion coverage, a move critics say could cause women buying their own insurance to have difficulty obtaining such coverage, The New York Times reported Thursday.
Stupak has insisted the final bill include his terms, which he says reflects current law. If party members do not accept his terms, Stupak said he is prepared to block passage of the healthcare reform measure.
"It's not the end of the world if it goes down," he told the Times, adding he wasn't terribly upset about the possibility of being blamed for blocking a key piece of President Barack Obama's domestic agenda.
Stupak said he and 10 or 11 other representatives would vote against a final bill that doesn't meet his criteria concerning abortion.
"Then you get the message," he said. "Fix the abortion language and bring the bill back."
Copyright 2010 by United Press International
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| Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar Dear Annie: I am one of four sisters, all of us in our 50s. We are a close-knit family, although we no longer live in the same communities.
My niece, "Tara," gave birth to a son while she was still in high school. A wonderful couple adopted the boy, and because the adoption was open, they have stayed in contact. The baby had some health issues, which they initially attributed to the lack of prenatal care. Two years later, Tara gave birth to her second out-of-wedlock son just as her first was diagnosed with Duchenne's muscular dystrophy. There is no history of this in the family, and my niece was deemed a spontaneous carrier. Her second child has it, too.
When these two were diagnosed, the doctors explained that, barring a miracle, her sons would face an increasingly painful life and an early death. They also told her she could pass along the disease to future children. Tara didn't care. Five years ago, she met a divorced man with three boys, and they have since had three more children together. Blessedly, two of the children are girls and will not develop the disease, although they could be carriers. The third child is a boy who, astoundingly, is healthy. But she plans to have more children.
No one can get through to Tara that she is playing genetic Russian roulette with her children's lives. These are children, by the way, whom neither she nor her partner can afford, and we have no idea how she plans to care for a child who might become disabled. How do we continue to love and support her when we are all so upset with the situation? -- Heartsick in the Heartland
Dear Heartsick: You sigh deeply and say nothing. Tara is a grown woman, and these are her choices, smart or not. Be a kind and loving great-aunt to these children, and try to keep your opinions out of it. That's as supportive as you need to be.
Dear Annie: My 20-year-old daughter is fantastic. She's smart, funny, compassionate, involved and has a beautiful, warm, friendly face. Her problem is that although she works out, she is short and a little heavy. And she doesn't know how to dress to "accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative."
I want to help her, but am afraid of hurting her feelings and don't know enough about the details of fashion to teach her. Also, she probably would not take my advice on this topic. Is there a book I could give her? Should I ask her mother to deliver the message? -- Loving Dad
Dear Dad: Mom may already have done so and met with little success. Your libraries and bookstores are filled with books on how to dress, but they won't help your daughter if she perceives your overtures as unwelcome criticism. If she works out, she is probably healthy, so try not to fixate on her weight. If you want her to dress differently but don't know how to do it, talk to her mother about what might be more flattering and buy her a new outfit for her next birthday.
Dear Annie: This is in response to "Louisville Lass," whose children receive too many presents.
When my daughter was born, we received mountains of toys and clothes from our families. I didn't want to offend the givers, so now I suggest different types of gifts for my daughter: a year's membership to the local zoo or children's museum, or tickets to local, low-cost events, such as kids' concerts, plays or book readings.
These gifts allow me to spend time with my child in an educational or cultural setting, and we send the giver pictures throughout the year of the fun ways she is enjoying their gift. It has worked beautifully for us. -- S.W.
Dear S.W.: This is a lovely suggestion, and we hope those who are looking for gift ideas will consider yours.
Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, P.O. Box 118190, Chicago, IL 60611. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox, and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.
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