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Saturday December 26, 2009

Health and Beauty Tip -- Eyeliner on the Inside?

Should you line the inside rims of your eyes? That depends on whom you listen to. Many beauty experts claim that it's "in" now, but others say it makes your eyes look smaller. It might be better to listen to opthamologists, though -- who warn that lining your eyes this way carries a greater risk of infection.

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1 in 5 men will have trouble finding wife

SEOUL (UPI) -- The ratio of men to women of marriage age in Korea will reach a record high in five years, and one in five men will have problems finding a wife, a study says.

The study put the ideal male marriage age at 29 to 33, and female age 26 to 30, The Chosun Ilbo newspaper reported Saturday.

There are 1.98 million men in that age group, some 70,000 more than women, but that gap is expected to grow to 381,300 by 2014, the newspaper said.

The study blamed the imbalance on Korean families' historical preference for boys.

It was an "open secret" that many couples are having pre-natal sex screening and sex-selective abortions, the study said.

The study, by the Gyeonggi Province Family and Women's Research Institute, said a continual increase in the number of women over the "ideal" marriage age is contributing to the problem.


Copyright 2009 by United Press International
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Annie's Mailbox

Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar

Dear Annie: I've known my husband for 16 years, and we have been married for the past seven. He is basically a good man, but he has an awful temper and is also an addict.

I've been patient with him because of the terrible childhood he had (his mom died when he was a toddler), so the problem with addiction is understandable. He cleaned up a few years ago, and things were great until he relapsed. With his temper on top of the addiction, he can be verbally abusive. He says the most awful things about my family and me, and sometimes he does it in front of my children.

If I even mention that he has a problem, we end up arguing. He's often in a bad mood. My youngest son has health problems, and I had to quit my job a couple of years ago, so now there is also the stress of financial hardship. I try not to fight in front of the kids and sometimes end up crying myself to sleep. I want to keep my family together but don't know how much more I can take. -- Hurt and Confused

Dear Hurt: You need to stop making excuses for your husband's temper and his inability to remain sober. A lot of people have had rotten childhoods, but they don't end up as addicts and abusers. Tell your husband the marriage is in trouble. You can find low-cost or free counseling through your clergyperson, United Way, the YMCA, local hospitals, university psychology departments and graduate school counseling departments, the American Association of Pastoral Counselors (aapc.org), 9504A Lee Highway, Fairfax, VA 22031-2303, and the American Counseling Association (counseling.org) at 1-800-347-6647. Get going.

Dear Annie: My wife of 39 years has given me great happiness. During our working years, our sex life was good, but after retiring, it was even better. That is, until I had a major medical problem that resulted in severe erectile dysfunction.

The ED left me depressed and without interest in sex. My wife was depressed, too, and climbing the walls. We tried pills, shots, pumps -- nothing worked. We tried being creative, but nothing was as satisfying. Finally, my urologist suggested a penile implant. Now our sex life is great again. I can't recommend it highly enough. Please tell your readers. -- Happy Again in Sarasota, Fla.

Dear Happy: We are glad you've found a way to enjoy intimacy with your wife again. There are many treatments available for erectile dysfunction, and we salute you and your wife for working through this together until it was resolved.

Dear Annie: "Miserable in Missouri" resented her mother-in-law's dropping in once a month or so. She is a perfect example of what is wrong in America. We have begun to treat our families and older relatives as nuisances instead of precious gifts.

Her mother-in-law is a "lovely person" who has come to her home unannounced four times in three months, and she is ready to scream about it. It sounds to me as if "Miserable" is the one with the problem.

If Mom is lonely, comfort her. If she needs your company, talk to her. I am not against boundaries. I just think this woman needs to have a little more compassion instead of being so selfish.

I am in my 40s with a good job, and I have children, which means I'm busier than she is, and I welcome my mother-in-law any time. If we are in the middle of something when she drops in, we include her. If we need to keep working, she either makes herself busy or comes back later. She is my husband's mother, and I need to give her my respect and love. Period. -- Gracious Daughter-in-Law

Dear D-I-L: You sound like a saint of a daughter-in-law, and we hope your husband and his mother appreciate you.

Happy Kwanzaa to all our readers.

Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, P.O. Box 118190, Chicago, IL 60611. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox, and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.


Copyright 2009 Creators Syndicate Inc.
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Maryon Pearson

Behind every successful man is a surprised woman.

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