| WASHINGTON (UPI) -- Women's advocates say they're looking to correct what they call a long-standing gender gap in insurance companies' treatment of female consumers.
They are working to insert provisions in healthcare reform legislation that would, among other things, bar "gender ratings" through which insurers can charge women more for the same health coverage as men, USA Today reported Monday.
"When it comes to health insurance, women are discriminated against," Sen. Barbara Mikulski, D-Md., told the newspaper. "We pay more and we get less, and often we are denied care."
Mikulski says she wants a final healthcare bill to mandate policies cover such things as preventive cancer screenings for women, such as mammograms and Pap tests.
USA Today reported provisions addressing at least some of the women's issues are included in all five of the healthcare bills moving through Congress. But Judy Waxman of the National Women's Law Center said women still have "a fight on our hands" to keep the provisions in final bills because lawmakers are "wheeling and dealing" to maintain a lid on costs.
Copyright 2009 by United Press International
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| Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar Dear Annie: My best friend is leaving soon for a vacation in Europe. She has posted on Craigslist, hoping to meet a local person with whom she can enjoy seeing the sights, sharing meals and practicing the language. She's had several responses, but the one that most appeals to her is from an American man working abroad. They appear to have a lot in common and have established a rapport through e-mails, texts and phone calls. There also seems to be some chemistry, so this could turn into a romantic encounter, as well, and my friend is quite excited about that possibility.
Here's the catch. This guy is engaged to a woman back in the States. Connecting with him seems wrong on so many levels, but what really concerns me is that my friend is aware of his engagement but still finds him quite appealing and wants to get together.
I'm concerned about her well-being. How can I be supportive and still help? -- Best Friend
Dear Best Friend: We understand your concern, but this is not something you can control. The best you can do is help your friend realize that if there is a romantic involvement, this man is likely to consider her a temporary fling and nothing more. Then tell her you want her to be safe, and as with any such liaison, ask her to give you the man's contact information just in case and let him know that she has done so. The rest is up to her.
Dear Annie: A very dear friend of mine recently sent me a package that included several birthday gifts. One of the gifts was an exact duplicate of something she sent last year.
I've already called and left her a phone message thanking her. I will undoubtedly speak to her soon and will again express my appreciation for her thoughtfulness. Should I mention that she has given me this particular item before? I'm sure she simply forgot. It's the type of thing one really does not need two of. Should I just remain quiet and re-gift it? If she brings it up, should I jokingly say I am using them as bookends? -- Already Got One
Dear Already: Please say nothing. Any gift is a bonus, and if you don't want it, exchange it, re-gift it or donate it to a charitable organization. No matter how you phrase it, she will be embarrassed knowing she gave you something twice and you have no use for it.
Dear Annie: Oh, my. I enjoy your column, and this is the first time I have taken offense to one of your replies.
"New Bride" was offended by her future stepdaughter's bridal shower gift. Giving a size 4 thong to a woman who wears a plus size is neither amusing nor racy. It is highly impolite behavior from a 35-year-old. While I agree that the marriage is taking place too soon after the first wife died, and that "New Bride" bears some responsibility for the animosity because she was living with the father while he was still married, the stepdaughter's communication approach leaves much to be desired.
I am often appalled that our society sees ridiculing obesity as an acceptable prejudice. You have the power to steer us away from such grade-school behaviors. I suspect that your answer was due to your assumption that "New Bride" is no grand communicator herself, but that was not at all clear. It just sounded like you thought she should treat her 35-year-old stepdaughter with "a little more sensitivity" when she is behaving like a teenage brat. Forgive my righteous rant. -- Mir
Dear Mir: You are forgiven. We don't think the stepdaughter's gift was appropriate at all. However, we believe "New Bride" should have deliberately chosen to respond as if it were simply racy as opposed to offensive. For an insult like this, pretending to be oblivious allows the relationship to recover before irreparable harm is done.
Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, P.O. Box 118190, Chicago, IL 60611. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox, and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.
Copyright 2009 Creators Syndicate Inc.
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| When you're helping your kids pick out their Halloween costumes this year, take safety into consideration, too. Use this guide to safe colors for Halloween costumes to make sure they stay visible when they're out trick-or-treating in the evenings.
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