| WASHINGTON (UPI) -- Women's groups that backed Hillary Clinton for U.S. president say the Obama administration is more committed to women's issues and equality than previous ones.
President Barack Obama set up a new White House Council on Women and Girls to assess all government agencies to ensure they do enough to benefit women, name the first senior adviser on domestic violence and the first ambassador for women's issues worldwide.
"This has been the most open White House to women's issues and groups," Feminist Majority Foundation President and long-time activist Eleanor Smeal, told USA Today. "In the first six months, we have been brought in more than ever before. It's very impressive."
Clinton abandoned her bid to be the first female U.S. president; becoming Obama's Secretary of State, and taking women's issues to a global stage.
In the 2008 General Election, 56 percent of female voters chose Obama over Republican Sen. John McCain of Arizona. Obama's first bill-signing nine days after taking the oath of office was the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Restoration Act.
Some women's advocates say he hasn't gone far enough, telling USA Today they want a Cabinet-level position on women's issues. Conservative observers said the administration is catering to liberals.
Copyright 2009 by United Press International
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| Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar Dear Annie: I am 26 years old, and earlier this year I met the man of my dreams. "Stu" is wonderful and caring. However, I made a big mistake.
Recently, I was drinking heavily and ended up messing around with Stu's best friend. I didn't sleep with the guy, but Stu caught us kissing and broke up with me. I apologized to Stu numerous times, and he agreed to take me back but said that was my "one screw up" and I'm not entitled to another.
We went out the next night for dinner, but by the end of the evening, he was acting strange. It turns out he had gotten a message on Facebook saying I had cheated on him every time he was out of town and that I was a slut. Whoever did this put in details that sounded as if they knew me, but the entire message was a lie. I have never done anything other than what I already confessed to.
Based on the details given, I think it was posted by someone in Stu's family who doesn't want us to be together. Unfortunately, Stu believes it. I am heartbroken and desperate for his forgiveness. I want him back in my life. What else can I do? -- Not That Guilty
Dear Not: You have undermined Stu's trust to the point where he isn't likely to believe you. And quite frankly, even if he takes you back, he will never be entirely sure you are telling him the truth and it will always be an issue. You can try couples counseling, but Stu must be willing. We know it's a tough lesson to learn, but if Stu cannot get past this, you are better off starting fresh with someone else.
Dear Annie: Last year at my 10-year high-school reunion, I saw "John" for the first time since graduation. We began dating shortly after and now see each other several times a week, even though we live 150 miles apart.
I am a divorced schoolteacher with a 5-year-old daughter. John is a Protestant minister who has never married. Although John has not yet formally proposed, our relationship seems to be on a fast track to marriage. The only problem is, I have never been a religious person and cannot envision myself as a minister's wife. John seems to think I'll come around in time, but I'm not sure. What do you suggest? -- Troubled in Ohio
Dear Troubled: You may have an unrealistic idea of what it means to be a minister's wife. While it makes things easier, one doesn't need to be deeply religious to organize a youth program, be a good listener and lend a helping hand where needed. Ask John specifically what religious responsibilities you would have, and then decide whether you can handle the situation. If you truly believe you cannot be the partner he needs, please don't marry him.
Dear Annie: This is for "Desperate in Pennsylvania," who asked about clicking in her throat. There are three likely possibilities. In some people, the voice box rides up and down against the bones of the spinal column when swallowing. There is really very little that can reasonably be done for this problem. Second, while the hyoid bone does not normally touch any cartilage, in rare instances it can become fractured (from neck trauma), not heal solidly and then make some noises and hurt when swallowing, speaking or motioning with the head or neck. Finally, the stylo-hyoid ligament, which helps suspend both the hyoid bone and, indirectly, the voice box, can develop calcium deposits. The calcified ligament is not flexible and can form a false "joint" that can click and hurt when swallowing or speaking.
It is possible to remove the hyoid bone or the ligament if necessary. But none of these conditions is particularly serious, so the risks of surgical intervention should be weighed against the benefits. -- Karol Wolicki, M.D., Otolaryngologist, Greensboro, N.C.
Dear Dr. Wolicki: Thanks for your expertise.
To All Our Muslim Readers: Happy Eid.
Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, P.O. Box 118190, Chicago, IL 60611. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox, and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.
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