| NEW YORK (UPI) -- Defending champion Serena Williams and 2005 champion Kim Clijsters will face off in the semifinals at the women's U.S. Open tennis.
The second-seeded Serena beat Italian Flavia Pennetta 6-4, 6-3 in one hour and 15 minutes Tuesday. A three-time U.S. Open champion, Williams has already won Wimbledon and the Australian Open this year and is in search of her 12th major title.
Clijsters, from Belgium, defeated Chinese Li Na 6-2, 6-4 in 63 minutes Tuesday. It was Clijsters' 100th victory in Grand Slam action.
The former world No. 1 Clijsters beat Serena's sister, third-seeded Venus Williams, Sunday. She has reached at least the semis in her last six major events.
Clijsters, 26, won the U.S. Open in 2005 and was the runner-up in 2003. She returned to the WTA Tour just last month after retiring in the spring of 2007 to start a family.
The Belgian, who has won her last 12 matches at the U.S. Open, is playing in her first Open since winning the title here four years ago.
The quarterfinals will conclude Wednesday, when ninth-seeded Caroline Wozniacki takes on 17-year-old Melanie Oudin and Yanina Wickmayer meets Kateryna Bondarenko.
Copyright 2009 by United Press International
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| Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar Dear Annie: My son and daughter-in-law are both in their 30s. They have college degrees and good jobs. However, every time they come to visit, I discover things are missing. I'm not imagining it. This happened even when they were dating.
A few years ago, my son told me he'd found some items that he knew belonged to us and didn't think I had given them to his wife. I said I would like them back, but nothing was ever returned. So far, my daughter-in-law hasn't taken anything expensive (that I know of), and I haven't made a big deal about it.
They now have a child, and I certainly don't want my grandson being taught that it's OK to steal. How do I confront her without causing a rift in the family? Or should I confront her at all? -- Arizona Mother-in-Law
Dear Arizona: Kleptomania is an impulse-control issue and may be associated with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Counseling and medication may be effective, but your daughter-in-law must be willing to admit she needs help. Talk to your son and explain to him how important it is that his wife work on this before it affects their child. He isn't doing her any favors by ignoring the problem.
Dear Annie: My wife's great-niece is getting married shortly. She is having a bridal shower the same week as the wedding.
The bride and groom have been living together for a while and are already set up as far as household items. What is the proper protocol for gifts in this situation? Is my wife required to give a gift for both events, or is one present proper? And if one, at which occasion should it be given? -- In a Quandary
Dear Quandary: Regardless of when the events take place, the custom of giving both a shower gift and a wedding gift is the same. Since the two are so close together, if your wife wishes to give one larger gift to cover both occasions, she may do so. If she attends the shower, however, she should bring an inexpensive token gift. The wedding present should be sent to their home.
Dear Annie: I was profoundly disturbed by your answer to "Nightmare in Maine," whose 17-year-old friend was raped at the hands of her brother's best friend after she got drunk at a party. She didn't want to report it. Although you suggested that she urge the victim to contact a rape/abuse hotline, you also said not to push her too hard to call the police, as it will only add stress to what is obviously a difficult situation. Wrong!
You would feel differently if your own daughter were the rapist's next victim, as happened in my community. You might wonder whether that could have been prevented had the original victim come forward to report this heinous crime and identify the rapist.
The law and common decency demand that crimes such as rape be reported to protect the community as a whole. Rape victims will suffer whether they report the crime or not, but in the long run, they may suffer much more guilt if they do not, especially if the rapist strikes again.
My daughter and I strongly believe a rape victim has responsibilities to other potential targets. Women who have been raped must stop seeing themselves as victims and start seeing themselves as survivors whose mission is to heal themselves and protect other women with their testimony. -- M.
Dear M.: We contacted RAINN (rainn.org) and were told that although many victims say reporting helped their recovery and allowed them to regain a feeling of control, it is a very personal decision. RAINN encourages reporting, but if rape survivors decide not to, for whatever reason, they shouldn't feel bad about their choice. The National Sexual Assault Hotline (1-800-656-HOPE) (1-800-656-4673) can help victims through the reporting process and, in some areas, will send an advocate to help the victim at the hospital or police station.
Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, P.O. Box 118190, Chicago, IL 60611. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox, and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.
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