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Thursday February 11, 2010

Health and Beauty Tip -- Healthy Eating for Hair
Atrazine linked to birth defect
Annie's Mailbox
Quote of the Day
Free Parenting Humor from the New Yorker

Health and Beauty Tip -- Healthy Eating for Hair

Did you know that hair growth and health can be affected by your diet? Iron deficiency, which comes from a diet lacking in things like meat, eggs, and cereals, can damage your hair. Make sure to eat the proper amount, as well as fresh fruits and vegetables. Vitamin C helps the body absorb iron.

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Atrazine linked to birth defect

SEATTLE (UPI) -- Scientists at the University of Washington say they've linked the farming chemical atrazine to higher rates of the birth defect gastroschisis.

In a study in Washington state, which has nearly twice the national average number of cases of gastroschisis, the scientists matched birth certificates against federal databases of agriculture spraying of atrazine, nitrates and 2,4-dichlorophenoxyacetic acid.

Gastroschisis occurred more frequently among infants whose mothers resided less than 15.5 miles from where fields and surface water had been sprayed with atrazine, Dr. Sarah Waller, one of the study's authors, said in a release. There was no link found between gastroschisis and the other chemical studied.

The risk of gastroschisis also increased for women who conceived in the spring when atrazine use is high, said the study to be presented Friday in Chicago to the Society for Maternal-Fetal Medicine.

Gastroschisis is an abdominal wall defect in which the intestines, and sometimes other organs, develop outside the fetal abdomen.

Atrazine is banned in the European Union but allowed in the United States for weed suppression.

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Annie's Mailbox

Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar

Dear Annie: I've been married for 29 years to a man I adore. We have had our ups and downs, but have weathered the storms because we both believe we are meant to be together. But we have a problem I don't know how to solve.

"Joe" plays an online role-playing game that I have never been comfortable with. And he always gets involved with someone online, and it is always a woman. They can't advance in their game unless they work together.

Several years ago, Joe became emotionally attached to another woman and left me for a while. When he came back, I thought those things were behind us, but I keep discovering lies. I know he meets up with this woman online every day while I am at work. My kids can hear the sound of her voice. My son was so upset, he wanted to move out of the house.

This torments me so much that I can barely function at work. I love my job, but I cry in the bathroom, and people are starting to ask questions. I have finally realized that Joe is going to do this type of thing forever, and it breaks my heart. Joe treats me beautifully when we are together, but I don't want to share him with other women.

I have asked his family for help, but they say Joe has a right to his relaxation and it shouldn't bother me. I am planning to start counseling before I have a nervous breakdown. I don't want to lose this man, but I have to save myself. Don't you think these women should consider the time they are spending online with someone who is married? Is there any hope for me? -- Crying Every Day

Dear Crying: Don't blame "these women" for Joe's behavior. The world of online gaming has plenty of men he could team up with, but he obviously makes the effort to find females. Joe's history indicates he becomes attached to his online friends, which is unhealthy for your marriage. If he cannot see (or doesn't care about) the damage he is causing, things don't look good. We are glad you will be getting counseling. It will help.

Dear Annie: My husband and I have five children together, and he has an older child from a previous relationship.

My question is about the firstborn of our five children. Our son passed away at the age of 9 months, but we still consider him part of our lives in so many ways. When asked how many children we have, what is the proper response? We don't want to leave out our firstborn, but we also don't want to give the wrong impression. -- Elkhart, Ind.

Dear Elkhart: The answer is up to you and depends on how much personal information you wish to divulge. If you prefer, it is OK to say you have six children. You are not obligated to give anyone the details. However, if you are willing to talk about your firstborn to those who ask this question, it might be comforting for you to say you have six children, but one died as an infant.

Dear Annie: I'd like to respond to "At a Loss," the 16-year-old who wets the bed.

I wet the bed until I was 17. So did my sister, my grandson and my nephew. Somewhere down the line, we inherited this from a relative. For me, it was my father.

The good news? We all outgrew it by the time we were in our 20s. I recommend she get some adult diapers from a medical supply store and just put them in the trash in the morning. They worked wonderfully for my grandson. I wish her luck and hope it's almost over with. -- Mem

Dear Mem: A certain percentage of bed-wetters outgrow it eventually. We're glad that worked for you.

Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, c/o Creators Syndicate, 5777 W. Century Blvd., Ste. 700, Los Angeles, CA 90045. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.

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Quote of the Day

Madeleine L'Engle (1918 - ), in New York Times, 1985

The great thing about getting older is that you don't lose all the other ages you've been.

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