If you have trouble with oily hair, make sure you're not using any products that claim to give your hair "extra shine" -- you have plenty already! Make sure you don't use two-in-one shampoo/conditioners or anti-frizz products, either. Instead, consult a beautician. For a quick fix, rub a little talcum powder into dry hair at the roots ... and make sure to wash or brush it out! |
VANCOUVER, British Columbia (UPI) -- Canada bounced back from its first loss in the women's Olympic curling tournament to clinch a semifinal spot Monday with a 6-2 victory over Sweden. The Canadian women lost to China Sunday after winning their first five games in the nine-match Olympic round-robin tournament. In a battle for first place, Canada jumped to a 4-0 lead through four ends and held on to improve to 6-1. Sweden, the defending Olympic champion, fell to 5-2 and needs one win in its last two matches to wrap up a semifinal berth. China failed to back up its big win over Canada, falling to Russia 7-4. That dropped the Chinese to 5-3, but a victory over the United States in their final round-robin game Tuesday will see them through to the semis. Switzerland moved within reach of a semifinal spot with its 10-4 victory over Japan. The Swiss are 4-3 with matches remaining against Germany and the Americans. Copyright 2010 by United Press International |
Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar Dear Annie: I have been married for two years. The problem is my daughter. "Melanie" was diagnosed as bipolar when she was 12. She has wild mood swings, and we've had to call the police on her more than 20 times. She has been convicted of domestic violence twice and has been hospitalized to try to deal with her disease. Melanie will be turning 18 soon, and my husband has given me an ultimatum -- kick her out or we will be divorcing. I would do this if Mel had someplace to go, but she doesn't, and I can't throw my child out in the street. My husband has no children and doesn't understand why it is so hard for me. Mel's tantrums are geared mostly toward me. She barely speaks to my husband. I can ignore her outbursts because they will pass, but my husband cannot. Mel sees a psychiatrist on a regular basis, and we have changed her medication a thousand times. I know we will eventually find a combination that works. We have been to family and marriage counseling, but my husband refuses to budge. I don't want to have to choose between my child and my marriage. Both the counselor and I have tried to explain what it means to be bipolar, but my husband doesn't believe it's a true illness. He thinks she can just change her behavior if she wants to. What can I do? -- At My Wits' End Dear Wits' End: It's a shame your husband doesn't have a better understanding of this debilitating illness, but we know your situation has been exhausting to deal with, and he undoubtedly wants the problem to go away. Melanie is going to be an adult and must eventually learn to be independent. Talk to her psychiatrist about the possibility of helping her find her own apartment. If you don't think she can handle a roommate, consider subsidizing her housing arrangements. Also discuss other forms of treatment, and contact the Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance (dbsalliance.org) at 1-800-826-3632 for suggestions and help. Dear Annie: Is it necessary for a man to remove his hat at the dinner table if it's a baseball cap? -- Pat Dear Pat: Yes. The only exceptions are illness and religious reasons. In nicer establishments and at home, there is no other excuse to keep a hat on. But we are not holding our breath waiting for a man in a fast-food place to remove a baseball cap, charming as that would be. Dear Annie: I read with interest the letter from "Just Wondering in Southern California," whose sister-in-law is obsessed with bleach. I was grateful that you included the poison help number (1-800-222-1222) in your response. However, I want to clarify a small but increasingly important point: The National Capital Poison Center is actually only one of 60 poison centers across the U.S. that can be reached through that number. If the woman who wrote called that number, she would have been connected to one of the centers within the California Poison Control System. As state budgets get tighter and tighter, identifying the poison center as a "national" system can actually undermine each center's importance at a time when many are arguing for their very existence. Thanks. -- Jessica Wehrman, Communications Manager, American Association of Poison Control Centers, Alexandria, Va. Dear Jessica Wehrman: Thanks for making sure our readers understand that the national toll-free number connects to various state poison control centers that serve their local communities. We need each and every one of them. Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, c/o Creators Syndicate, 5777 W. Century Blvd., Ste. 700, Los Angeles, CA 90045. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com. Copyright 2010 Creators Syndicate Inc. |