| EAST LANSING, Mich. (UPI) -- U.S. researchers are producing a DVD and booklet on the safety and effectiveness of alternative and complementary medicine for women with breast cancer.
Gwen Wyatt and colleagues at Michigan State University in East Lansing asked more than 200 women recovering from breast cancer about what was most popular and why.
The findings include:
-- About 57 percent used alternative/complementary options. The sicker a woman was the more likely she was to use multiple therapies.
-- Biologically based diet supplements and vitamins were the most popular. The next most popular methods were mind-body therapies using audiotapes, video and music therapy.
-- The therapies with the highest costs -- acupuncture and therapeutic touch -- were used by very few women.
-- Women without at least some college education were less likely to use alternative/ complementary therapies.
"Women are using these therapies, but they have little education about safety and efficacy," Wyatt said in a statement.
"They could really benefit from information on how to make a wise decision and choose the best therapies."
Copyright 2010 by United Press International
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| Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar Dear Annie: My wife and I are both 54-year-old professionals. We grew up in the same small town, but didn't begin a romance until our 30th high-school reunion. We were in a long-distance relationship for four years and then married two years ago. Her children are grown. My 14-year-old son lives with us.
The problem is her parents. For some reason, they have decided they do not like me. I am not welcome in their home, nor will they come to our house. My wife is invited to every one of their family events, but my son and I are not. Her three siblings treat me the same way, as does her 28-year-old daughter. We all live in the same town, but I have no contact with any of them.
I have never treated any of my in-laws with anything other than the utmost courtesy and respect. I have tried engaging her parents and sister in dialogue, but no one will say a peep. I am convinced her parents are purposely stressing my wife in the hope that our marriage will fail.
I could deal with all of this if I felt my wife stood up for, supported and properly prioritized our family. I feel she should not attend functions if we all are not invited. I am hurt and humiliated when she goes without us -- effectively saying it's OK for her family to treat us poorly.
I cannot fathom treating my children as her parents have treated us. I think their behavior is controlling, selfish and borderline abusive. Is it too much to expect my wife to stand up for her family? -- Ignored Husband
Dear Ignored: Of course not. Your wife's family continues to treat you with disrespect because your wife permits it. She should have the decency to tell them you are a package deal and insist on your inclusion. They will never willingly adjust to your marriage if your wife doesn't demand they make the effort.
Dear Annie: I have a simple question. Our family received an unusual gift last Christmas from an aunt and uncle. Included in the card was a gift receipt, along with a rebate offer for the item and the regular receipt, which is needed to cash in the rebate.
My question is, who should benefit from the rebate? Should it be shared with my aunt and uncle? Returned? Kept? -- Beyond my Reasoning in the Midwest
Dear Midwest: If the original receipt and rebate offer were included in the card from the givers, it means they intended for you to send in the paperwork and keep the proceeds. (If they had wanted the rebate, they would have sent in the receipt themselves.) Consider it part of the gift. Be sure to thank them.
Dear Annie: I read the letter from "Loving Dad," whose 20-year-old daughter doesn't know how to dress to complement her body shape. I, too, had this problem, and my father stepped in. At first I found it offensive and refused to listen, but I soon realized he was right.
Too often, I have seen overweight women wear unflattering things, and everyone is too polite to speak up. I am glad my father was willing, because it allowed me to see just how unattractive I looked.
My parents were quick with praise, but they were also quick to tell the truth. If something didn't look good, they said so. It took a while for me to appreciate this, but now, at 28, I dress well and look good.
It is incredibly important for a young woman -- especially one with weight issues -- to learn what flatters her. Our society judges on appearance, and this could affect her in many ways. I suggest Dad speak to his wife about how to gently broach the subject. -- Eternally Grateful
Dear Grateful: Very few people so willingly accept constructive criticism. Your parents handled it well, but you handled it better. Kudos.
Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, c/o Creators Syndicate, 5777 W. Century Blvd., Ste. 700, Los Angeles, CA 90045. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.
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