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Friday February 26, 2010

Health and Beauty Tip -- Air-Drying Your Hair

Every once in awhile, air-drying your hair can be good for it -- as long as you do it right. Make sure you use an absorbent towel to speed up drying time, and blot your hair gently instead of rubbing it (rubbing can cause frizziness and split ends). For extra volume and waves, pull your hair back with large clips until it dries.

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U.S. women stay alive for curling medal

VANCOUVER, British Columbia (UPI) -- The United States women's curling team kept its hopes alive for an Olympic medal Saturday by rallying for a 6-5 victory over Britain.

The Americans lost their first four games of the Olympic tournament, but have now won two in a row. The top four teams at the end of the nine-match, round-robin portion of the event make it to the semifinals and the United States moved within a game of Britain for fourth place.

Britain held a 5-3 lead going into the ninth end, but the United States picked up a point in both the ninth and 10th ends to send the match into extra time. Another point in the 11th end gave the Americans the win.

Canada, unbeaten in four matches, had the day off.

Sweden, which won its first four matches, suffered an unlikely 10-1 loss to Russia to fall out of a tie for first place.

China stayed on pace for a semifinal berth with a 9-7 decision over Germany. The Chinese are alone in third place with a 4-2 mark.

The other match Saturday saw Switzerland edge Denmark 8-7. Denmark fell into last place at 1-5.


Copyright 2010 by United Press International
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Annie's Mailbox

Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar

Dear Annie: I adore my husband of 20 years, and we have the best kids on earth. The problem? My parents. My older sister is divorced and has several small children. She is also an alcoholic and a horribly toxic person.

In the past few years, "Hettie" has pulled several stunts where her drinking has put herself and her children in extreme danger. She insists she is sober, but I know from several reliable sources that she is not. She won't admit that her cheating and drinking drove her husband away, and she has my parents snowed into thinking it was all his fault. She swindled her ex and my parents out of enough money to net her a nice income, yet she twists everything so that she comes out the victim.

I do not allow my teenagers to baby-sit for her or get in her car because she allows strange men in her home and drives drunk. She only calls when she wants something, and if I don't drop everything (I work full time), she screams at me.

My parents believe I am a horrible person because I don't buy in to Hettie's lies or give her money. I've tried to help in the past, and it brought nothing but trouble. She is a mean, lying drunk. My parents say I need to look past this because she is "family." I cannot deal with the drama anymore. I am cordial to Hettie, but won't make her our charity poster child like my parents do.

I have done my best, but I am still the "disappointing daughter." Last year, their intense disapproval sent me into the hospital with a major anxiety attack. Talking to them doesn't help. This is breaking my heart. -- Refuse to be an Enabler

Dear Refuse: Your parents have blinders on when it comes to Hettie. Accepting that she is a "mean, lying drunk" makes them fear it's their fault, and that is why they blame you instead. You cannot change the way they think, but you can change how you deal with it. If you need help, get some counseling to learn better coping skills.

Dear Annie: I have repeatedly told my daughter to remove her things from my home because we no longer have room for them, but it does no good. We plan on moving soon and cannot take along 10 boxes of our daughter's books and clothes. She lives out of the country and visits two or three times a year. Each time she visits, she buys more than she can possibly take back and leaves the rest here. It is prohibitively expensive to ship boxes of books to her. What do we do? Out-of-Space Mom

Dear Mom: Notify your daughter that you will pack up her things and put them in a storage facility for six months or until her next visit, whichever comes first. After that, you will stop paying storage fees. She can then decide whether she wants to keep paying the fees herself, ship the items to her current location, sell them or make other arrangements that don't involve you. The important thing is that you stick to your guns.

Dear Annie: "Might As Well Be Single" said her husband couldn't hold on to a job. Thank you for mentioning the possibility that he is suffering from Attention Deficit Disorder. The fact that he has had many jobs could mean he is making an effort to be employed.

I am 70 years old. I had job and school problems all my life and only recently discovered that I have ADD. I always managed to make a decent living, but might have done a lot better had I known earlier what I was up against. And my wife would have had a happier life. -- Wish I'd Known

Dear Wish: ADD was not a realistic diagnosis when you were younger, but we're glad you know now.

To our Baha'i Readers: Happy Ayyam-i-Ha.

Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, c/o Creators Syndicate, 5777 W. Century Blvd., Ste. 700, Los Angeles, CA 90045. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.


Copyright 2010 Creators Syndicate Inc.
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Quote of the Day

Etty Hillesum

I do believe it is possible to create, even without ever writing a word or painting a picture, by simply molding one's inner life. And that too is a deed.

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